BECAUSE SHAME IS NOT WHAT YOU THINK
EMBRACE YOUR BREAK POINT!
Using psychoanalytic tools to turn challenges into opportunities
Helping people and companies realize how powerful they are
ABOUT ME
Dr. Lia A. Roth
I’m not your typical coach.
I’m the straight-talking psychoanalyst you didn’t know you needed. Clinical, forensic, research, teaching, speaking you name it, I’ve done it.
From Buenos Aires to Boston, my work explores how we love, how we crack, and how we rebuild—especially when betrayal or shame disrupts the stories we live by. I use psychoanalysis to turn challenges into opportunities.
In Get In or Get Out but Don’t Stay in the Freakn’ Middle, I am the first one to redefine betrayal as a semiotic rupture: a breakdown of meaning that exposes who we are beneath the roles we play.
My work helps organizations, courts, and individuals understand what happens when we lose track of the meanings that shape and drive us. And how to rebuild them, professionally, relationally, and symbolically.
OUR PHILOSOPHY
MOVING FORWARD: FROM DISRUPTION INTO INSIGHT
We turn disruption into insight — and insight into sustainable change. Our work begins by reframing core concepts into insight. Grounded in psychoanalytic research and lived experience, we help people and organizations understand the hidden potential beneath betrayal, burnout, imposter syndrome, and all things shame.
When we transform how people think, we transform how they lead, live, and relate. This is how we build a healthier world: one person, one company, one community at a time.
Re-define your self-identity
Promote grounded, self-directed leadership
View disruption not as failure, but as opportunity
Have a purposeful and meaningful life
With BRT, we have guided mothers, athletes, CEOs, and religious communities from role-trapped living to intentional leadership
REIMAGINING MEANING TO CREATE POWER
I’m an eclectic Freudian, yes. Have you noticed that even with his bad rep, Freud’s ideas still pulse through every modern therapy—CBT, mindfulness, coaching? For the past few years, I’ve researched, written, and spoken about shame in all its shapes—the sting of imposter syndrome, the pain of betrayal and infidelity, and the endless search for worth and belonging.
In my work, I love exploring concepts that often seem confusing—like vulnerability, which is both joy and pain, like birth itself. It’s the same force behind speaking up, the first move toward creating a real team. It’s the energy that helps us move toward what matters. I reimagine meaning to restore their healing power.
Because nothing is more ingenious than the way the universe created us. We all have the tools we need; we just need to recognize that our path is unique to each of us. You have yours. I have mine.
EMPOWER, NAVIGATE, TRANSFORM
MEET YOUR CRISES EXPERT
Crisis maverick and strategic sorceress, Lilly joins the team with a mission to unleash your rawest, most resilient self. A no-nonsense mastermind, she’s turned disasters into diamonds across global boardrooms and NGOs alike. She’s organized high-stakes conferences—from the Future of Politics to TEDxBuenos Aires—while crafting a crisis playbook that’s bold, sharp, and impossible to ignore. Her expertise guides you through betrayal’s darkest corners, fueling not just survival but explosive growth. Reclaiming your power isn’t a goal with her—it’s a damn necessity.
LILLY ROTH
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Take your place...
I once watched a group of highly qualified CEOs enter into a terrible contract with a major corporation. Not because they were inexperienced. Not because they lacked data. But because no one spoke up. Each one privately had doubts, and they all thought someone else would take the lead.
Their silence wasn’t strategic, it was personal. They did not want to come across as difficult. That silence cost them, financially, structurally, and culturally.
This wasn’t incompetence. It was shame in action. And it happens everywhere.
Be fully awake. Notice how you stand. How you breathe. How your voice sounds when it’s yours again.
Because when you move from reaction into intention, you don’t just lead: you lead with others, toward something better than survival.
DARE TO EMBRACE A NEW MISSION
A PATH TO AUTONOMY
HEAL THY WOUNDS
Our approach hands you back the power that betrayal shattered and makes it yours, for good. You’ll blaze through shock, grief, guilt, and pain like a force of nature, flipping self-defeating habits into fuel for unstoppable growth, deep healing, and unapologetic self-discovery. This is all about claiming your ultimate comeback with the autonomy and flexibility to handle any curveball.
RECLAIM YOUR TRUE SELF
Infidelity and betrayal shatter your sense of self, and that’s your golden opportunity to hit the reset button. Rediscover and rebuild who you are with guided self-reflection that digs deep into your values. Reconnect with who you were before, own who you’ve become, and step boldly into who you want to be, with strategies that fuel true self-empowerment.
BREAK FREE & RECLAIM YOUR FIRE!
Snatch Back Your Power After
Infidelity, Betrayal and Divorce!
Discover a transformative path to rebuild your life, reignite your self-worth, love with confidence, and rediscover joy after all that happened.
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SUPPORT YOUR CHILDREN
Our method tunes you in to your kids' real needs, helping them adapt to new family dynamics with the security and love they deserve. No drama, no manipulation. You’ll gain rock-solid strategies to keep them feeling stable and loved, showing them what it looks like to thrive, even when life throws a curveball.
RESILIENCE & AUTONOMY
Build unshakeable emotional and mental strength. Face setbacks and grow stronger, not smaller. Instead of setting rigid boundaries, learn to be adaptable and true to yourself, no matter what life throws at you. Embrace a bold, self-led life that moves through challenges with confidence and purpose.
EMPOWERED LIVING BEYOND RECOVERY
Our program tackles the real impact of divorce, infidelity, and betrayal, going way beyond broken trust. We don’t just do recovery, this is your shot to turn pain into power, reclaim your purpose, and build a life that’s all yours. Dive into what drives you, give back, and start crafting your legacy.
Classes
H.E.A.L. Project
Unchain Your Power: Defeat Self-Sabotage and Rise to Your Best Self
Outsmart Manipulators: Thriving Amidst Gaslighters and Narcissists
From Victim to Victor: Your Path to Survival and Self-Leadership
Unleash Your True Self: Breaking Free from Conformity and Seeking Validation
Reality Check and Letting Go
What Our Clients Are Saying
Dr. Roth, your steadfast support and expertise have been incredibly grounding. You've helped me navigate one of the hardest times in my life" - Mrs. CS.
"Thank you, Dr. Roth, for your guidance. I now feel empowered to understand what happened, accept it and move forward." - Mrs. IM
"Dr. Roth's kindness and non-judgmental approach helped me face my past without fear or shame, empowering me to build a better life for myself and those I care about." - Mr. DA
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